Teen Mental Health: What You As A Parent Need To Know
Growing up has never been easy, but it can seem even more daunting for families today. Adolescence is a time of significant change for kids, and dealing with emotions, school, and outside events can be overwhelming sometimes. As a parent, it’s important to help instill in your child healthy mental health habits that will last a lifetime and to know when something may be wrong and a conversation is needed. This blog post will help you better understand teen mental health and how to connect with your child.
Stressors — And Coping Mechanisms — Are Different Today
Even apart from the global pandemic, civil unrest, and inflation that’s disrupted nearly everyone’s life over the past few years, teens today face issues our generation couldn’t have imagined. Social media and technology pressures can create a toxic storm of self-doubt, FOMO (fear of missing out), sadness, bullying, and more.
Teenage mental health issues can manifest themselves in ways adults may not recognize. Even the way kids talk about depression has changed, with new slang terms, idioms, and metaphors. Instead of staying on the phone with friends venting about school or parents, they may turn to group chats, log on to a Discord server to voice chat or even just zone out watching their favorite Twitch streamer.
How to Promote Positive Mental Health in Teens
Mental health is like caring for a car — many big problems are taken care of with preventative maintenance. Also, some folks may think of the term “mental health” as something negative, but in reality, it’s part of our daily lives and can be a positive thing! Here are some ways to encourage healthy mental health in teens:
Talk about feelings often
Emotions are how we process and make sense of the world around us. So make sure you talk about your own and encourage your child to share theirs — good, bad, and everything in between. Let your child know that all feelings are okay, no matter what. Tell them they can always come to you with any emotion, problem, or situation for help. Plus, the more you talk about these feelings, the more you’ll know what’s going on in your child’s world.
Encourage good physical health
The mind and body are linked, so it’s vital that teens eat nutritious food, drink lots of water, exercise regularly, and rest well. Set aside time throughout the day to share healthy meals and move your bodies as a group.
Be a role model
One of the most important things you can do is model how to respond to life and emotions for your child. For example, when you have a bad day at work and are stressed, demonstrate how you decompress with yoga or by having a movie night with the family. These little habits show your child that life isn’t just about what happens to you — it’s also how you react to things.
Common Mental Health Issues to Know About
Anxiety and depression are probably the most common teen mental health issues parents recognize, but there are other ways teens may be struggling, including:
Suicidal ideation
Disordered eating
Behavioral disorders
Risk-taking behaviors
How You Can Support Your Child
Know the warning signs
No one knows your child like you do, so you’re in the best position to know when and if something is off in their world. Here are some general things to look out for when it comes to warning signs for issues like depression and anxiety:
Changes in school performances
Eating habit changes
Increased irritability
Inability to concentrate
Losing interest in once-loved activities
Physical ailments without causes (stomachaches, headaches)
Sleeping too little or too much
Isolation from friends, teammates, and family
Actively listen
When you talk to your teen, please give them your full attention. It can be challenging for a young person to bear their soul, and the last thing you want is for them to feel like you’re not all there. Put your phone in another room, turn off the TV, and make sure there’s lots of eye contact. Ask follow-up questions and repeat back important parts of what they’re saying. This can look like, “I hear you’re not sleeping well and feel tired all the time. That sounds pretty stressful!”
Show empathy
It may be hard to 100% understand some of the situations and activities your teen may be in. For example, maybe you’ve never dramatically been kicked out of a group chat. But you probably have experienced a fight with friends. So show your child that you understand their emotions and that they’re not alone in their feelings, whatever they may be.
Offer support
This can look like listening more often, planning a weekly ice cream date, or working together to find a therapist. Let your child know that you’re willing to show up for them in whatever they need to support their mental health.
Provide resources
If there’s one silver lining to dealing with mental health issues today, there’s never been a time more filled with information and resources thanks to the internet. From videos and worksheets to texting hotlines and phone numbers, there are tons of ways to get and implement help. Check out our resources page at www.ifyoudontquityouwin.com
